I'm trying to determine what instances of sql server/sql express I have installed (either manually or programmatically) but all of the examples are telling me to run a SQL query to determine this which assumes I'm already connected to a particular instance.
At a command line:
SQLCMD -L
or
OSQL -L
(Note: must be a capital L)
This will list all the sql servers installed on your network. There are configuration options you can set to prevent a SQL Server from showing in the list. To do this...
At command line:
svrnetcn
In the enabled protocols list, select 'TCP/IP', then click properties. There is a check box for 'Hide server'.