Using nl2br Displays html tags in my textarea

I just started using nl2br in my php site. Basically I am using it to give a nice layout to a 'bio' field in case the user presses enter.

Problem is that it stores the exact line break tag <br> in my database and it does the same when i display the same data from my server to a text area.

How can i prevent the textarea from displaying the actual <br> tag here's my sample code

//grabbing the data in the text area field
$bio = nl2br(htmlentities(trim($_POST['bio'])));

//displaying the value from the database
$row = mysql_fetch_array($my_select_query);
<textarea><?php echo $row['bio']?; ></textarea>

I get something that looks like this in my textarea

how can i avoid this?

You shouldn't nl2br(), or even htmlentities() input before storing it in your database. I tend to keep it reasonably raw, which gives more scope to change things later on.

If this is already in production, you could create your own br2nl() function which reverses the effects of nl2br():

function br2nl($input) {
    return preg_replace('/<br\\s*?\/??>/i', '', $input);
}