coloring containers by tabbing with flutter

I have column with many ((Tabbed)) items, when I tab on one of them it should be colored and the others transparent, and here is my Tabbed classthis image for what I have now with my code

class Tabbed extends StatefulWidget {
  @override
  _TabbedState createState() => _TabbedState();
}

class _TabbedState extends State<Tabbed> {
  Color color = Colors.transparent;
  @override
  void initState() {
    color = Colors.transparent;
  }
  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return GestureDetector(
      onTap: (){
        print("tab");
        if (color == Colors.transparent){
          setState(() {
            color = Colors.purple;
          });
        }
        else{
          setState(() {
            color = Colors.transparent;
          });
        }
      },
      child: Container(
        height: 100,
        width: 100,
        decoration: BoxDecoration(
          color: color,
          border: Border.all(color: Colors.red,width: 1),
        ),
      ),
    );
  }
}

you can simply try creating a model for your boxes and have a boolean property and store the status of each box in a list to know whether the box is tapped or not ,you can also pefer a list of boolean but I prefer creating a list of model as it will allow you to add more properties, I have modified your code a little bit you can see it working here on dartpad as well

class Tabbed extends StatefulWidget {
  @override
  _TabbedState createState() => _TabbedState();
}

class _TabbedState extends State<Tabbed> {
  Color color = Colors.green; 
  @override
  void initState() {
    for(int i=0;i<listLength;i++){
      list1.add(
      TabModel(isTapped: false)); // assigns initial value to false
    }
    for(int i=0;i<listLength;i++){
      list2.add(
      TabModel(isTapped: false)); // assigns initial value to false
    }
  }

  Widget column1(){
    return Column(
    children: List.generate(
          listLength,
          (index) =>GestureDetector(
          onTap: (){
            // this selects only one out of many and disables rest
            for(int i=0;i<list1.length;i++){
              if(i!=index){
                list1[i].isTapped=false;
              }
            };
            setState((){
              list1[index].isTapped = true;
            });
          },
          child:Container(
            margin:EdgeInsets.all(5),
            color: list1[index].isTapped? Colors.red:color,
          height:100,
          width:100
          ))
        ));
  }

  Widget column2(){
    return Column(
    children: List.generate(
          listLength,
          (index) =>GestureDetector(
          onTap: (){
            setState((){
              list2[index].isTapped = !list2[index].isTapped;
            });
          },
          child:Container(
            margin:EdgeInsets.all(5),
            color: list2[index].isTapped? Colors.red:color,
          height:100,
          width:100
          ))
        ));
  }

 List<TabModel> list1 =[]; 
 List<TabModel> list2 =[]; 

  int listLength=5;
  @override
  Widget build(BuildContext context) {
    return Row(
      mainAxisAlignment: MainAxisAlignment.spaceEvenly,
    children: <Widget>[
      column1(),
      column2()
    ],);
  }
}
class TabModel{
   bool isTapped = false;
  TabModel({this.isTapped});
}

if this is not what you want or if you face any issue understanding any part of the code feel free to drop a comment I would love to help out the bwlow output shows two independent columns in coumn1 you can select one out of many boxes and in other you can select multiple boxes