React Native iOS simulator "Connect to Metro to Develop Javascript"

I'm running a react native app and constantly running into the issue of the app not connecting to the code to do automatic updates.

Things I've tried:

• Reloading main.jsbundle via the following command: npx react-native bundle --entry-file index.js --platform ios --dev false --bundle-output ios/main.jsbundle --assets-dest ios/assets
• Completely removing node and react native from my computer
• Restarting my computer
• Running on a physical device and running on the simulator
• Cleaning derived data in Xcode

This is the screen on starting up, which offers the advice, "Connect to Metro to develop JavaScript."

From the metro bundler that automatically starts up, I get this message when I type 'r' to reload that says, "React Native: No apps connected."

I'm using 0.61 and always have been.

What else should I try?

EDIT

I was able to get it working by restarting my computer (again).

Every once in a while, a restart does the trick, yet most of the time it doesn't work. There still has to be a more reliable way of fixing this.

I had the same issue some time before. Suddenly the App doesn't work anymore if starting only with XCode. I have to start the metro-bundler via CLI... and if running, I had to use "XCode" to run the App. As the metro-bundler still running in the background, XCode didn't start it's own, and the connection could be established.

I've described my request here... which sounds a bit similar to yours. Now I don't have any issues anymore if starting from xcode directly. Maybe this was caused of an upgrade of XCode (my current XCode-Version: 10.3)