How to align tilemap, grid and sprites to center? (Unity 2D Tilemap)

I am making a game similar to Rimworld and I have issues aligning the tilemap, grid and sprites so that they all work as intended functionally and visually.

The default offset for the tile anchor is 0.5, 0.5, 0 and this works entirely until I drop a sprite in the center of the tile, where it appears to be positioned bottom-left (with the sprite's pivot set to Center).

This is a problem because I'd have to manually set an offset (0.5, 0.5, 0) for every single object I instantiate to match the visuals of the tilemap. I tried setting the tile anchor to 0 but then the tilemap moves while the grid position stays the same which messes up click detection. (if only I could move the grid back by (-0.5, -0.5, 0)?

Is there an elegant and easy solution for all of this?

To get a perfect custom alignment for a tilemap or sprite the easiest solution is to take a empty gameobject as spawner , take the position of that empty spawner object and and then instantiate those tile or other prefab at the exact location where you kept those spawner objects by your choice.