I have a LED stripe with a classic IR controller (image) and asked myself if I could control it with my Samsung Galaxy s21 Ultra which can emit infra-red light for its ToF camera. Now there are two issues.
This is unlikely. The ToF IR pulse has to be very specific in length and shape, and likely controlled at the very low level (possibly by the sensor hardware itself).
So it's not likely that there's a way to customize the pulse shape or duration.