I've been creating a reliable networking protocol similar to TCP, and was wondering what a good default value for a re-transmit threshold should be on a packet (the number of times I resend the packet before assuming that the connection was broken). How can I find the optimal number of retries on a network? Also; not all networks have the same reliability, so I'd imagine this 'optimal' value would vary between networks. Is there a good way to calculate the optimal number of retries? Also; how many milliseconds should I wait before re-trying?
I ended up allowing the application to set this value, with a default value of 5 retries. This seemed to work across a large number of networks in our testing scenarios.