I know this question has been asked and answered many times, and I've spent a decent amount of time reading through the following questions:
The problem is that there seem to be a somewhat even distribution of supporters for a few classes of solutions:
So at the risk of asking a duplicate question, I'd like to describe my specific scenario, and hopefully get a more specific answer.
Currently my site has a single user table in mysql, with around 10-15 columns(id, name, email, password...)
I'd like to add a set of per-user settings for whether to send email alerts for different types of events (notify_if_user_follows_me, notify_if_user_messages_me, notify_when_friend_posts_new_stuff...)
I anticipate that in the future I'd be infrequently adding one off per-user settings which are mostly 1 to 1 with users.
I'm leaning towards creating a second user_settings table and stick "non-essential" information such as email notification settings there, for the sake of keeping the main user table more readable, but is very curious to hear what expects have to say.
Seems that your dilemma is to vertically partition the user table or not. You may want to read this SO Q/A too.