How to update a record and update include many records relationship by foreignKey in sequelize use db postgres

I create an API that updates a record associated with a foreign key

1. if I just put a value to items so I want it to return remove other values that I don't put

2. if I edit some value in items so I want it to return the value that I edited

3. if I put value over value of items so I want it to return the old value of items and the value that I put over

example: const record = {id:1,name:"abc",items:[{id:1,name:"abc",recordId:1},{id:2,name:"abcd",recordId:1}]}

const update = await dbRecord.update({id,name},{where: {id: req.params.id},include:[model:'items',id:[1,2]});

const update = await dbRecord.update(
  { id, name },
  { where: { id: req.params.id } }
);
//array get from body
ex: array = [
  { id: 1, name: "abc", recordId: 1 },
  { id: 2, name: "abcd", recordId: 1 },
];
const itemId = array.map((arr) => arr.id);
// result = [1,2]

await dbItems.bulkCreate(array, {
  updateOnDuplicate: ["name"],
});

for (var i = 0; i < update.items.length; i++) {
  const item = update.items[i];
  if (!itemId.includes(container.id)) {
    await container.destroy();
  }
}

so it create update delete in once time.