R: Remove subsequent rows after specific occurences of character by group

I have a large dataset similar to the following one.

I want to calculate the average wage by each status, but with two restirctions: First, I only want to consider statuses of each individual until the status "B-AL" is reached the second time. All rows after the second occurance of "B-AL" by each ID should not be considered in the calculation.

(I think) I solved this by creating two help variables and then filter by those with cumsum()

data <- data %>%
  arrange(date) %>%
  mutate(num = row_number(),
         num2 = ifelse(change == "B-AL" & num == 2, 1, 0),
         .by = c(ID, change))

data <- data %>%
  group_by(ID) %>%
  filter(cumsum(num2) == 0) %>% 
  ungroup()

Now the second restiction: As soon as one ID has status "AL-X" all subseqent rows should not bne considered as well.

If I use the same approach as above I also loose the observation where "AL-X" occurs the first time. However, I want this one to be included and all subsequent ones to be excluded. After both operations the table should look like this

After that I can calculate the average wages with summarise (first by status and then by ID)

Any help is appreciated. I am also not sure whether the first operation is sound and efficient.

Judging by the desired output you want

• remove everything when "B-AL" occurred the second time including that line and
• everything removed after the first occurrence of "AL-X".

library(dplyr)

df %>% 
  filter(cumsum(Change == c("B-AL")) < 2, 
         lag(cumsum(Change == c("AL-X")), default=0) < 1, .by = ID)
   ID       Date Change wage
1 201 04.01.2023   B-AL  900
2 201 01.03.2023  AL-AL  900
3 201 01.10.2023  AL-AL  900
4 201 10.11.2023   AL-B 1900
5 301 03.01.2023   B-AL 1100
6 301 11.02.2023   AL-B 2500
7 401 02.01.2023   B-AL  700
8 401 28.01.2023   AL-X    0